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	<title>Comments on: Can Friendships Last Forever?</title>
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		<title>By: Angelika</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-553</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 16:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think very few relationships can last forever.  I&#039;ve known my BFF for almost 20 years, everyone else I know (not including family) has been for a few years or just a &quot;season&quot;.

I can&#039;t deal with high maintenance &quot;friendships&quot;.  I admit that I&#039;m antisocial, so I&#039;m okay with not having people calling/visiting me constantly.  I couldn&#039;t handle all the company anyway.  Have I mentioned that I&#039;m anti-social?

That video game chick sounds...immature to me.  WTF?  

I&#039;m seriously not the one to give advice on maintaining relationships.  If your friendship means as much to her as it does to you, she&#039;ll try to work it out, right?  If she doesn&#039;t...

Buh bye.

Good luck, Chica!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think very few relationships can last forever.  I&#8217;ve known my BFF for almost 20 years, everyone else I know (not including family) has been for a few years or just a &#8220;season&#8221;.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t deal with high maintenance &#8220;friendships&#8221;.  I admit that I&#8217;m antisocial, so I&#8217;m okay with not having people calling/visiting me constantly.  I couldn&#8217;t handle all the company anyway.  Have I mentioned that I&#8217;m anti-social?</p>
<p>That video game chick sounds&#8230;immature to me.  WTF?  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m seriously not the one to give advice on maintaining relationships.  If your friendship means as much to her as it does to you, she&#8217;ll try to work it out, right?  If she doesn&#8217;t&#8230;</p>
<p>Buh bye.</p>
<p>Good luck, Chica!<br />
<span class="cluv">Angelika&#180;s last [type] ..<a class="9d8606b019 553" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/Angelika/~3/GDE2OAA5cZM/nothing-to-say-71510.html">Nothing to say &#8211; 7-15-10</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Portrait Photographers San Antonio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Portrait Photographers San Antonio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 09:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Silent treatment does not solve a problem, it just makes it worse. Instead of talking about the problem and trying to fix things, refusing to talk about it just put a gap on your friendship. When a friend reaches out to you, a true friend reaches back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silent treatment does not solve a problem, it just makes it worse. Instead of talking about the problem and trying to fix things, refusing to talk about it just put a gap on your friendship. When a friend reaches out to you, a true friend reaches back.</p>
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		<title>By: Group Travel Services</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-551</link>
		<dc:creator>Group Travel Services</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 08:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maintaining friendships can sometimes be difficult. It can be draining not just mentally but also emotionally. We should always learn to forgive and try to resolve things the best way we can. If you&#039;re blessed to have  real friendship, then it will be hard to just throw it away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maintaining friendships can sometimes be difficult. It can be draining not just mentally but also emotionally. We should always learn to forgive and try to resolve things the best way we can. If you&#8217;re blessed to have  real friendship, then it will be hard to just throw it away.</p>
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		<title>By: Monique Renae</title>
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		<dc:creator>Monique Renae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 20:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;If your friendship is real, it can definitely last forever.&lt;/b&gt;

Absolutely.

PS - I love love love your work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>If your friendship is real, it can definitely last forever.</b></p>
<p>Absolutely.</p>
<p>PS &#8211; I love love love your work.</p>
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		<title>By: Monique Renae</title>
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		<dc:creator>Monique Renae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 20:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joe,

Your version of the truth is so warped it&#039;s pointless for me to even attempt to correct it. Not only that but your versions are ever changing. I sent you a tell, I didn&#039;t, I sent a text first, I said nothing... make up your mind.

We have been friends for five years and I don&#039;t care what happened, the mere fact that 2 weeks later you still couldn&#039;t even HAVE A CONVERSATION with me about it tells me that on your end, the friendship was nothing but a joke.

Also, talking behind someones back is not what I did or do. I wrote a post about it, which you, as a friend could see especially since my blog is linked to Facebook. 

I have no problems admitting I miss our friendship and that if things could have happened differently, I would happily rewind time.  

I. Miss. My. Friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe,</p>
<p>Your version of the truth is so warped it&#8217;s pointless for me to even attempt to correct it. Not only that but your versions are ever changing. I sent you a tell, I didn&#8217;t, I sent a text first, I said nothing&#8230; make up your mind.</p>
<p>We have been friends for five years and I don&#8217;t care what happened, the mere fact that 2 weeks later you still couldn&#8217;t even HAVE A CONVERSATION with me about it tells me that on your end, the friendship was nothing but a joke.</p>
<p>Also, talking behind someones back is not what I did or do. I wrote a post about it, which you, as a friend could see especially since my blog is linked to Facebook. </p>
<p>I have no problems admitting I miss our friendship and that if things could have happened differently, I would happily rewind time.  </p>
<p>I. Miss. My. Friend.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara@Wedding Photographers Pittsburgh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara@Wedding Photographers Pittsburgh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 12:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe friendship can last forever. I for one have best friends since childhood. I&#039;m proud to say that we&#039;ve been good friends for more than 20 years now and still going strong. If your friendship is real, it can definitely last forever.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe friendship can last forever. I for one have best friends since childhood. I&#8217;m proud to say that we&#8217;ve been good friends for more than 20 years now and still going strong. If your friendship is real, it can definitely last forever.</p>
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		<title>By: Brendan</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-546</link>
		<dc:creator>Brendan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 17:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well looks like i need to take a trip to where The Mysterious Video Gamer lives.. and teach him a thing or two about being emo over nothing.. grow up dude seriously or ill come knocking</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well looks like i need to take a trip to where The Mysterious Video Gamer lives.. and teach him a thing or two about being emo over nothing.. grow up dude seriously or ill come knocking</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin N.</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-545</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin N.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 16:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Mysterious Video Gamer - &quot;Not more lies… not more stories…. not more drama… the truth.&quot; is what she said she was owed.

I can say from my own personal experience with you, you&#039;re a douche. You&#039;re a complete and utter ass hole who does not deserve her friendship. You disrespect her, you treat her like garbage, and are really the worst of what you imagine yourself to be. I discovered that when you basically spit in my face when I was trying to help you too. Yes, this was in a video game too, but guess what? I was over it 5 minutes later. You want to be some self-righteous, pompous bitch, then that&#039;s on you, but don&#039;t sit here and try to ride in on some white horse when you&#039;re the one who is really sitting in a gutter begging for help and then spitting on the people trying to help you.

Then you try to cry wolf, again, without the courage to even use your real name. I have been patient, I have sat by as my friend has been hurt by your bullshit actions and lying self over and over, and now you have allowed me to tell you what I really think of you and how you behave. Maybe YOU will get some common sense and figure out that you are the one destroying the friendships and relationships you&#039;ve &quot;built&quot;, not the other way around.

Grow.The.Fuck.Up.

Yours, Truly,

Kevin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mysterious Video Gamer &#8211; &#8220;Not more lies… not more stories…. not more drama… the truth.&#8221; is what she said she was owed.</p>
<p>I can say from my own personal experience with you, you&#8217;re a douche. You&#8217;re a complete and utter ass hole who does not deserve her friendship. You disrespect her, you treat her like garbage, and are really the worst of what you imagine yourself to be. I discovered that when you basically spit in my face when I was trying to help you too. Yes, this was in a video game too, but guess what? I was over it 5 minutes later. You want to be some self-righteous, pompous bitch, then that&#8217;s on you, but don&#8217;t sit here and try to ride in on some white horse when you&#8217;re the one who is really sitting in a gutter begging for help and then spitting on the people trying to help you.</p>
<p>Then you try to cry wolf, again, without the courage to even use your real name. I have been patient, I have sat by as my friend has been hurt by your bullshit actions and lying self over and over, and now you have allowed me to tell you what I really think of you and how you behave. Maybe YOU will get some common sense and figure out that you are the one destroying the friendships and relationships you&#8217;ve &#8220;built&#8221;, not the other way around.</p>
<p>Grow.The.Fuck.Up.</p>
<p>Yours, Truly,</p>
<p>Kevin<br />
<span class="cluv">Kevin N.&#180;s last [type] ..<a class="eb3d7b25e7 545" href="http://kevinnumerick.me/2010/07/03/alas-the-last-air-bender/">Alas- The Last Airbender</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: The Mysterious Video Gamer</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-544</link>
		<dc:creator>The Mysterious Video Gamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 07:31:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are two sides to every story, and the one always shine the most when told to friends of our own. Sure it was an issue that happened *DURING* a video game, but what is NOT ABOUT a video game is the hatred and hurt you showed for me.

I&#039;m not here to plea my case, you&#039;ve made it very clear that you don&#039;t want to offer me any time to recover because immediately following this issue I had travel plans the very next day, followed by my intense work schedule (52 hours in a 4 day period) - followed by a car accident that happened THE VERY SAME DAY YOU POSTED THIS.

You are the one who sent me the text to &#039;F*ck Off&#039; without warning. You didn&#039;t send me a message or /tell in this video game - and after nothing but silence from you, I get this wonderful text telling me exactly how you feel about me.

Oh and those subtle hints that you drop on facebook that &#039;aren&#039;t about anyone who questions you about them&#039; - I don&#039;t have to ask you about them... you showed me who you are right here with this posting.

So go ahead, delete this comment before your friends read it, I don&#039;t care. I&#039;m not coming back to check, or troll, or battle. Not my style.

Thanks for clearing everything up, and best wishes to you. Maybe you&#039;ll grow some sense the next time you go off on a friend and talk crap behind their back while they&#039;re trying to recover from the wounds you cut into them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are two sides to every story, and the one always shine the most when told to friends of our own. Sure it was an issue that happened *DURING* a video game, but what is NOT ABOUT a video game is the hatred and hurt you showed for me.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not here to plea my case, you&#8217;ve made it very clear that you don&#8217;t want to offer me any time to recover because immediately following this issue I had travel plans the very next day, followed by my intense work schedule (52 hours in a 4 day period) &#8211; followed by a car accident that happened THE VERY SAME DAY YOU POSTED THIS.</p>
<p>You are the one who sent me the text to &#8216;F*ck Off&#8217; without warning. You didn&#8217;t send me a message or /tell in this video game &#8211; and after nothing but silence from you, I get this wonderful text telling me exactly how you feel about me.</p>
<p>Oh and those subtle hints that you drop on facebook that &#8216;aren&#8217;t about anyone who questions you about them&#8217; &#8211; I don&#8217;t have to ask you about them&#8230; you showed me who you are right here with this posting.</p>
<p>So go ahead, delete this comment before your friends read it, I don&#8217;t care. I&#8217;m not coming back to check, or troll, or battle. Not my style.</p>
<p>Thanks for clearing everything up, and best wishes to you. Maybe you&#8217;ll grow some sense the next time you go off on a friend and talk crap behind their back while they&#8217;re trying to recover from the wounds you cut into them.</p>
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		<title>By: Monique Renae</title>
		<link>http://moniquerenae.com/blog/2010/06/30/can-friendships-last-forever/comment-page-1/#comment-543</link>
		<dc:creator>Monique Renae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 17:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s sad that it gets HARDER as we get older. One would think it would be the exact opposite.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s sad that it gets HARDER as we get older. One would think it would be the exact opposite.</p>
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